My daughter’s first birthday was celebrated by our family at Hotel Maurya Patna, one of the most premium hotels in our city. We spent generously, and nothing was spared: two beautiful, well-decorated halls for our guests, good food, a cake and the people we love most, all gathered around one small girl.
Yet in all that planning, nobody remembered to book a photographer or a cameraman.
There is no proper record of that evening: no picture of her first cake, no video of her grandparents holding her, no family photograph of the day she turned one. We spent well on the celebration and left out the one thing that would have kept it with us for a lifetime.
Even today, I find it hard to believe that we forgot something so important. It was not for lack of love or effort. Everyone was busy with the halls, the food and the guests, and there was no list in front of us and no one whose job was to ask, “Who is capturing this?”
A checklist would have asked that question for us. That is why we made these lists: so the moments that matter most are not left to memory alone.